My Tampoi…

October 21, 2007

Jogging & Watching Sunset

Filed under: Destinations — ericltkong @ 3:17 pm

Yesterday went for jogging at the same spot (check my previous post for destination). this time went wit a few more compare to only the usual 3 or 4 of us.

Anyway, i’ll let the picture do the talking. mind you, it’s unedit and i only post up few to show here out of the rest.

cheers & GB…

Disappointment…

Filed under: Life — ericltkong @ 3:12 pm

I’m don’t wanna blog about this but i think it would be best for the reader to judge watever is written here onwards.

Ever felt betrayed? ever felt like someone who said they believed you but in fact they don’t? wat if all this are done by someone who you treated them as your family member?

Let’s take a simple scenario here. you were caught red-handed for stealing from a neighbor’s house. next thing you were arrested by the police (cos the person who saw you committed the crime made the report). but while you were being questioned, you found that you were also being charged not only stealing but murder of your neighbor whom you steal from. now you needed a lawyer and thank God you have a close-fren (chidlhood fren or someone whom really put your trust and respect unto) who was willing to help you. your close-fren said he/she will help you and will believe watever you said. but on the actual day when the case is being hear, your fren did not take into account of wat you’ve said or explain to her but instead just follow wat the prosecutor have charged onto you.

So, how do you feel if you were in such situation? i’ve just gone thru recently. in the end of the day, i’m not angry at them. i’m just so DISAPPOINTED at how the way they handle the problem. all this while i thought they can handle tasks well but i guess not.

Even worse when they said they rather listen to us than from outsider but yet when they reported the incident to the superior, they did not use our explanation. this ppl are like N.A.T.O. (No Action Talk Only) it seems like all this while we were explaining to the air or sky the whole time. they’re physically there but their minds are not! wonder if they really bring their brain wit them all the time or they left it at home?!

In the end, all they can said is ’sorry’. they can say it over and over again a thousand or even a million times and yet they’re not bore wit it. to add on, they dare to ask you ‘wat else you wan kan? i oledi said sorry bah’, knowing the facts that they screwed up from the beginning! if i have a choice, i’ll said ‘i wanna punch you rite in the face!’ but then, violent never works here.

You see, the whole thing is just about disappointment to me but then they chose not to settle it. they dare to use the excuse of they’re human and they made mistake. therefore, the same goes for me. i’m also a human and so dun expect saying ’sorry’ will cover up all the wounds.

Well, it’s something i have to keep in mind from now on to prevent from happening in the future. if this thing can happen once and not settle, then prepare for next time.

‘Always plan for the best but prepare for the worse.’

cheers & GB…

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